Changing last names after marriage

I just read a blog article about whether a woman (or man marrying a woman, as the article added) should change her/his last name after marriage.

Until recently, I'd always thought that if I do get married, I would definitely take my husband's last name. Just out of tradition, and wanting to create a family unit with everyone sharing a single name. 

However, the blog made me realize that there is now a part of me that perhaps would like to keep my last name. It's unique, and is one of the only ties I have to my Japanese heritage, which is all but non-existent in my life. Plus, once I start working, I would prefer to be called by my current last name because I earned my degree as T. CurrentName, not T. NewName. Is that selfish? >_<

So I thought that maybe legally I would keep my last name, to use professionally, and then use my husband's name socially. But then it made me kind of sad that we would die with different legal last names. I know it wouldn't be true at all, but it makes the marriage sound a tiny bit fraudulent/less valid to me. 

Anyway, this is not something that I have to worry about anytime soon so these are just random musings of a sleepy T.

My life in gifs

2nd year
whatshouldwecalldentistschool:

It started like this

Then the information overload felt like this:

Now every night feels like this:

The amount of info you retain by the next day is this:

Your attention span is like this


And all you need is this

How it feels to be in dental school
whatshouldwecalldental:

How It feels when you’re accepted

How it feels once you’re in for a few months.

Yep, pretty much sums up my life these days. Thanks whatshouldwecalldentistschool and whatshouldwecalldental for commiserating with me! The little sense of humor that has all but been sucked out of me (by dental school, of course) appreciates it.

Hair inspiration

I am still obsessed with wanting to dye my hair blonde. One of the main reservations I had with this though was the whole growing out process, not to mention the extensive maintenance I imagine it would require. However, I stumbled upon some hair inspiration from a blog that is making it harder and harder to resist taking some chemical to the head:

While it is possibly creepy that I have random people's pictures on my blog (they are from http://www.fashionista804.com, for the record), I love this ombre look on the girl on the right. Casual, and a gradual change from blonde to black, so even if my roots grow out a little, it's all good in the neighborhood. I also like the actual blonde color-not brassy or orange-y. As a side note, the hair color on the girl on the left is really pretty too.

If I ever get this done, I'm taking these photos in to the salon with me. Hopefully these girls won't mind! Or maybe I can learn to do this myself!

Peach picking and wine tasting

One of my roommates moved out yesterday. Because we lived together for three years, and she's one of the people who has been with me since the beginning of my life in this city, it was a bit sad when she left. Aside from family and my other roommate, I have never lived with anyone for this long! A lot of memories over the years. Such as our peach picking and wine tasting adventures a couple of weeks ago!

Yum! At Carter Mountain.

Basket purely for show. Belonged to the people who graciously took this pic for us!

At the Jefferson Vineyards in/near Charlottesville.

Relaxing in the gorgeous weather that day.

I'm starting to feel a shift in my life in this city. Soon, my other roommate will move out as well, and I'll have to somehow navigate through my last two years here without these girls. They've definitely made living here easier and fun!